The date can be changed to  the 12th of Feb, no biggie. The problem remains if my hubby can do the ceremony. Setting all coordination of schedules into a tailspin. I am secretly happy because I am demanding that his schedule gets changed, and not his secretary loading his schedule too full with appointments and no prep time for meetings. I am sure it is making her life miserable, but for once the tables are turned. I am not a mean person by nature, I just think secretary’s need to understand the gravity of prep time. There are many nights I find My-Love-of-My-Life up reading late at night. I have been tempted to e-mail the secretary pictures that are time stamped to prove how he needs to prep at home because it is not built into her planning. I don’t want to sound needy, because believe me I am the most fiercely independent person I know, but  I happened to be terminal, and I would like to see my hubby other than in a stack full of papers at 2 am in the morning on  my way to the bathroom. Now that I have stopped venting. I do think family time in a cancer family becomes a huge priority. The clock is ticking, and I am very aware of it.