I’ve never been able to sit still for long, but now that my body has a limited time I am even more impatient. If my babysitter is late I am explosive, not because she is late, but limiting my time to get what I think needs to be done. Adding unnecessary pressure to my day and myself does not help any cancer patient, especially a stage 4 like myself.
I am often frustrated about how little I get done in a day. Always making comparisons to before cancer times which does not help. When I was healthy I could do X, Yand Z. As I am confronted with a new challenge I have to approach it much more carefully. Financial problems occur for every cancer patient. When you have exhausted your savings, things that where quite normal to do have to be limited, pushed back or forgotten.
I have an almost 4 year old whom I assumed I would take to the Magic Kingdom or the Epcot center sometime in her life time, but now I am on a personal mission to see it with her, trying once again to cram it all in. I am almost manic about it, and as auxiliary cash is dwindling, I just have to let go of this fantasy because of financial restraints and not physical or mental restraints from cancer. I have a conference in Feb. to attend, but I don’t think I will go because of my financial concerns. I am not getting lay ed off or fired, I don’t have a job just a full time Mom, but what little savings we have has to remain not knowing what my funeral costs will become. I hate to make this such a morbid topic, but I also don’t want to leave my family penniless just to bury me. In Holland they have an insurance to cover such costs, but I am not qualified do to my illness.
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